He nevers does that. My wife has started smoking, and the image of her doing that eats me up. In one of the posts from this Reddit user, not only does he hate seeing his spouse smoke, but its actually making him think about separation.For something thats supposed to relieve stress, smoking can eventually destroy a relationship. my wife stayed its 2:30 time for my smoke. Two years ago he started smoking again. In the bathroom, I spritz some lavender body spray and walk through the mist. One day, he decided to fulfill this fetish by getting his wife to start the habit of smoking. We really clicked and started dating. Now I smoke a pack a day, on a good stress-free day. She reveals a cigarette and lights it up for him. I selfishly wanted her to smoke more. In fact, smoking makes Alzheimer's less likely. Except for me. Try and keep the home stress free and joyful. 6. level 1. I was so naive that I had never heard of it. Do you want him to have a habit when he comes come, constantly smoking indoors, or going outside for a smoke, smelling like dirt, constantly needing to go buy more cigs or tabacco, etc. My husband recently revealed his smoking fetish fantasy. In addition, second hand smoke, inhaled by those around the individual who is smoking is equally dangerous to health. I smoke a pack a day, same brand. Then, 9 months ago, he told me he had a smoking fetish. I began when I was 13 and smoke a pack and a half a day of Benson and Hedges. My husband quit and then started again and then quit again and finally took to smoking out of sight. I have impressionable teens in my house. Then, 9 months ago, he told me he had a smoking fetish. Then they had a delay. After months of no success, he finally relented. It didnt take him much to do it. As you must know cigarette smoking is known to cause cancer and is considered dangerous to ones health. I'm really excited by this. I would think they are ways you could indulge him in this fantasy without endangering your health. As you must know cigarette smoking is known to cause cancer and is considered dangerous to ones health. About a year after that I would notice different porn on his computer. If I don't like them then, I can quit. It was incredibly romantic and relaxing and a wonderful time. But I'm a closet smoker. Hi everyone. 2. We recently had this fight and right after the argument we went to a restaurant and he ordered a beer. My extended family smoked and is now dying from it. Dogzilla October 3, 2000, 2:06pm #8. Regina-Phalange. HUSBAND IS NOT COURTEOUS WHEN SMOKING POT. I always thought he was a big anti-smoker. He made this wonderful promise that he would quit because he knew it bothered me before we got married. I started smoking at work and while driving, on a regular basis. It could be your husband is going through something hes internalized and smoking gives him some stress relief. Getting wife to smoke. That is not news. Answer (1 of 4): Most of the smokers that stop cold turkey go back to smoking six months to one year after they stopped. If your husband or wife comes to you and says they are going to start using pot and you are uncomfortable with that, ideally they should submit to your opinion and avoid using marijuana. Answer (1 of 4): Why does everyone assume its her and their relationship? Smoking of any kind is nearly impossible to hide, especially from your spouse. I quit smoking right before we met. I was kind of freaked at first. I had one last night and it felt so good, i've had 3 today. 1. There are lots of possible reasons for this. We both agreed we would NOT smoke. That was years ago now. back saying not there any place else,co worker stated try filing. He has eliminated almost all the harm from smoking so try to support him in this if you at all can. How Should I Respond To My Husband When He Badgers Me To Start Smoking To Satisfy His Cigarette Fetish? We dont know you, him, your marriage or your current situation so When i met him he said he'd quit but then it started again and i realised it was an every day thing. Answer (1 of 16): Hi Im Lacis wife. Unfortunately, I think we have to eliminate this option straight away. In addition, second hand smoke, inhaled by those around the individual who is smoking is equally dangerous to health. Stay physically active to help ease bodily tension.Let friends and family members know when you need support or space.Avoid situations that you find anxiety-provoking, such as loud, crowded parties.Practice relaxation techniques, such as meditation.Establish sleep rituals and avoid caffeine too close to bedtime. My husband is a pot smoker. It's rotten that he started smoking again after so long but it's actually really, really good that he's switched to vaping. By Anonymous Jan 20, 2018 So my resolution is to start smoking some full-flavor cigarette and continue until I'm smoking at least 5 a day. Answer (1 of 16): Hi Im Lacis wife. I would think they are ways you could indulge him in this fantasy without endangering your health. I will rise above the smoke. Then they had a delay. Other girls smoking. Now, while I still smoke, I might smoke that in a week. Started smoking again!! Then he made me start smoking because he said he thought it was sexy. Kicking snow over my ashes, I head inside, washing my hands at the kitchen sink. Sometimes more. I got pregnant (unplanned) and he promised he'd quit - and he did quit until our baby was about 6 months old.. Then recently he went back to smoking. He actually bought an external hard drive for his computer because his collection of porn got so huge. He is stressed out and under pressure so he is smoking. I had not ever smoked weed in my life. His smoking costs us almost $4,000 a year. After I had been smoking about three months, my husband had semi-emergency surgery. Kudos to you for wanting to! So, the first thing you should tell him is that hes not alone. We both smoked for 1-2 months and finally I told her I wanted her to stop smoking and go to therapy before we moved in together. One of the biggest triggers of smoking habit is stress. I was trying to get pregnant and then I did and stayed quit. Let him indulge in activities that make him happy, even if you may dislike it. I stayed with him prior to going into surgery. I always thought he was a big anti-smoker. Cathy started smoking cigarettes years ago for her smoker husband named Paul. My husband and I are in our fifties and have been very happily married for 32 years. Keep in mind, oddly enough, these "closest friends" were not in my school. Unless you completely avoid all levels of closeness and intimacy in your relationship, smoking is a habit that leaves traces on even the most careful person. smokingagain Wed 30-Apr-03 22:58:14. Regina-Phalange. I had one last night and it felt so good, i've had 3 today. (13 Posts) Add message | Report. My wife used to smoke a half pack a day of Marlboro Reds. Anyway, the more I think about it the more excited I get -- and it will blow my husband's mind. OT: Husband started smoking. Sorry I have very strong feelings about this. The next scene takes place 2 weeks after she started smoking and Amber has learned how to smoke sexy. I have been with my husband for seven years and he has been a non smoker the entire time, or at least what I thought to be the entire time. Hope You All Enjoy.Please Subscribe. So my resolution is to start smoking some full-flavor cigarette and continue until I'm smoking at least 5 a day. Tell your spouse how you feel. John Barleycorn. In reply to: Ron 's message, "Re: How I started smoking at age 40" on 23:56:58 02/05/02 Tue. My only issue is, Jeremy has an obsession/fetish with women smoking cigarettes. So I did because I loved him so much that I would do anything for him. In fact, smoking makes Alzheimer's less likely. I have a fiery determination and indefinite patience to remain free from smoking. In reply to: Ron 's message, "Re: How I started smoking at age 40" on 23:56:58 02/05/02 Tue. Now, often, I smoke multiple times a day. Kudos to you for wanting to! But there is truth. That is the critical phase, and around 95% fail at that point. I was kind of freaked at first. Perfectly normal, my sissy husband loves watching me smoke. I want my husband to keep chain smoking, said no wife ever. He was a smoker and it always made me want to smoke with him. Something A Bit Different. After I had been smoking about three months, my husband had semi-emergency surgery. farside said: My wife and I have been married for seven years and over the course of our relationship I have kept something from her: I have a fetish for women that smoke. My story is more about how I succumbed to temptation and how I started smoking again. We both smoked for 1-2 months and finally I told her I wanted her to stop smoking and go to therapy before we moved in together. I also started my wife smoking, back when we first started dating. My husband recently revealed his smoking fetish fantasy. MsLonely. I quit 15 years ago for 4 years. Never over a pack and a half. Or so he thought. She initially acted as though she was excited (she's wanted to move-in together for a long time and I've been ambivalent). Mar 18, 2008. 1 Ask your husband to stop smoking for the sake of those around him, chiefly you and your son. After wed been together about 8 months and, at times, he had tried to persuade me to try a cigarette, id got to the point where i was becoming quite irritable about him smoking. Date Posted: 00:06:13 02/06/02 Wed. I was so naive that I had never heard of it. (13 Posts) Add message | Report. Got my Husband to start smoking. We connect, communicate, understand and love everything about each other. and co worker/smoker. My husband Eric has smoked a pack a day (or more) since I met him. I quit smoking right before we met. My story is more about how I succumbed to temptation and how I started smoking again. By Anonymous Jan 20, 2018 Hi everyone. About 15 months ago, I started seeing a new guy. Keep the home environment happy. He has been working out of state for the last six months and during date night Saturday night he casually disclosed to me that he's been smoking one cigarette a day for the last five Mostly trough school but some of my closest friends also happened to be my neighbors. Now two years later my baby is a beautiful healthy child, my husband has a great job, and he smokes two packs a week. Ask him why he all of a sudden wants to be an inferior person. I have been with my husband for seven years and he has been a non smoker the entire time, or at least what I thought to be the entire time. And let me state upfront here- -you have a right to an opinion. After wed been together about 8 months and, at times, he had tried to persuade me to try a cigarette, id got to the point where i was becoming quite irritable about him smoking.